During the course of the year I write down qoutes which are inspirational, right on or educational. Here is my latest list: Winners don't always win because they're better than everybody else, but frequently because they outlast everybody, there are a fewer competitors down the road. (Bob Lefsetz – my Oracle) I've always thought it was …
Tuesday night we bestowed our treasured "Red Bandana" Award upon Paul Napolitano, Co Chair of our East End Group. The Award is in memory of Welles Remy Crowther, son of Jefferson Crowther, Co Chair of our Open House Group. Welles was an annonymous hero on 9/11 who perished after saving 18 souls while wearing a red bandana to protect his breathing …
On this second day of the Thanksgiving weekend I would like to give thanks to all things Gotham. In the true spirit of our "It's better to give than receive, but what goes around comes around" mantra, our Tribe has enjoyed a bountiful year.In this our "Sweet 16" year we have grown geometrically to over 50 groups (stretching from Boston to South Flo …
I am a pre "Baby Boomer" and as such have witnessed Seismic change. Examples are:1) "No Smoking" in restaurants, bars, trains and planes2) People picking up dog poop 3) Medical marijuana4) Legalized gambling5) Legalized abortion6) Same sex marriage7) Fitness training-gym rats8) Running for exercise9) White wine10) People carrying their telephones …
Since I started walking our puppy on the early shift before 6:00 I have discovered a new and favorite time of day. After Charcoal does her business I get back in bed and loll in a warm semi conscious state. In that state of grace, like when in the shower, many interesting and creative thoughts drift by and, possibly since I am semi conscious, I …
Last week My wife Joanne went away for a long weekend to a Woman's Film Festival and I was left home alone with our puppy Charcoal and my thoughts. Being a social animal I do not fare well in solitude. Thank goodness for the puppy and her walks where we could interact with other dogs and their owners. You might call this Old School Social Netwo …
Upon the passing of Lou Reed this week I mentioned that I knew him and he had played my fraternity party in Roslyn on New Year's Eve December 31, 1962. This inspired Cayce Crown to nickname me Zelig. She references Woody Allen's Leonard Zelig a nondescript enigma who pops up everywhere. I don't know if I can live up to Zelig's ubiquity, but I …
When I was young and in high school and college I always sat in the back of the room. When I was in law school and they had the Socratic method I was always in dire fear of being called on and having to present. This was not only because I was sometimes unprepared. Needless to say, as in the case of many, I was in dire fear of public speaking. …
When I was young I had a Super 8 movie camera and a movieola film editing machine and for a time fancied myself a movie maker. As with many of my youthful fascinations, I did not follow through and my Hollywood aspirations were suspended. Yes, when I grew up to be a lawyer, we represented New Line Cinema and my college roommate became head of L …
I have become a snap shot artist with the advent of my iPhone 5 which has a far better camera than my old Blackberry. I fancy myself not so much an artist as a shutter bug. Someone who seizes the advantage of having the instant ability to see a picture in my mind's eye and take it "in the moment". A perfect everyday example is above. What …
The title above is the pass word conceived by Gotham Videographer Cayce Crown ("I shoot your relatives so you don't need to") for the Gotham Film Festival (our 3rd annual is on 10/22) site. When I first saw the password I was both surprised and complimented as she had captured my entire 16 year Gotham adventure in a short string. Growing up …
I admit that I always looked down my nose and barely tolerated the dog lovers who constantly peppered me with pet pictures and their related cooing. Over the years we have had dogs, which i have tolerated, and one wonderful cat (Kitzel). As many of you may know, this year, after many petless years, I submitted to my wife Joanne's request and we …
When I was initiated into my college fraternity the final test was the "Black Hole" into which the upper class "Bothers" piled the pledges. Many a boy broke in the "Black Hole" under the weight and closeness of the crammed in mass of hormonal humanity, but more broke with their first experience with claustrophobia. Since that time I have been p …
Sly and The Family Stone had a great song: Every Day People. This is a story about one of those people. 2 Weeks ago at the Gotham golf outing I was sitting in my cart just before the start. A grizzled old caddie approached and introduced himself to me as Joe. I asked him the year of his birth. He said 1935 and I said "78 is pretty old for a cad …
This is another blog about our new puppy Charcoal (a little 10 pound Shnoodle). Last weekend Joanne went out and I decided it was the perfect opportunity for me to take Charcoal out on a walk on the road. It was our first "road trip" and I was nervous. From the start she was straining at the leash far more heavily than her 10 pounds. Every time …
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