In light of the response to my blog last week, I'm focussing on one of the 15. You can't change people You can guide, support, and offer advice, but real change only happens when someone is willing to put in the effort. No matter how much you want to help, if a person isn't ready to make changes, there's nothing you can do. (And we all know s …
Understanding some of life's hard lessons opens us up to greater achievements and can help us overcome the obstacles that hold us back. Here 15 “difficult truths” that can improve your life (taken from responses to a Redditor named Rare_Can_5418.) 1. Stop comparing yourself "Comparison is the thief of joy." 2. Some people won't like you "You ca …
If you love golf, this may be for you. The Augusta National Golf Club (yes, THAT one) is looking for a senior manager and historian. Here's a brief job description. This role serves as the Augusta National Golf Club historian, curator and archivist. The ideal candidate is responsible for managing, preserving and enhancing the past, presen …
Does everyone want or need feedback? I've been buying fresh bread from a local Italian bakery in Glen Cove for quite some time. The staff has usually been pleasant, saying the right things but often in a tone that indicates they work hard, which they do. I'm always nice to them and always leave a tip. Last weekend I stopped by to get some fres …
Mother Nature’s rule is absolute, and let's be honest—we humans don’t stand a chance. Have you watched the news this week? She’s got the ultimate power to command oceans, mountains, and skies. We may build walls, tunnels, and protection for our towns and cities, but one good storm and boom—we are underwater from a tropical store (cue Debby) We …
Over the last couple of weekends I've been traveling the highways and backroads of NY. It's quite enjoyable on the back roads, passing farms of corn and soybeans in different stages of growth, the big swoops of numerous windmills, and the cows and animals serving our population. However, on the highways, the amount of pieces of tires is astonishi …
T-shirts. The unmistakeable sign of an attitude. What attitude that might be is up to the wearer and for us to guess. Some throw one on without any thought as to what it says or what it means, while others carefully pick one out that fits the statement they want to make. In my ad hoc poll, most T-shirt wearers are conscious about the statement …
Is it hot enough for you? This summer, with temperatures soaring into the "OMG" range, even the ice cream is having a meltdown before it reaches your cone. So, as we sit in our houses grateful for air conditioning, remember, this summer is about survival. My tip of the moment is to stay hydrated, stay cool, grab your sunglasses, and always look …
Judging oneself is a bad habit, that holds back our creativity and personal growth. We often set unrealistic standards, comparing ourselves to who we think we should be. I know I am my worst critic. I expect perfection in this imperfect body and mind. I have experienced over the years that my relentless self-criticism is waning, learning to be …
Life often surprises us with moments of joy when we least expect them. Even the smallest of moments can change the trajectory of our day. Think about it. What happend to you over the past couple of days/weeks that gave you a moment of joy... Hitting a pure golf shot Laughing out loud A good hug Great conversation Acknowledging these little …
We had a Strawberry Moon last night. Did you see it? This year, the Full Moon coincides with the summer solstice. It reached peak illumination at 9:08PM last night. Because of this, today the Sun will be at its highest of the year. Fun Facts: June’s full Moon—typically the last full Moon of spring or the first of summer—has traditionally been c …
No not a person but a task. My desk was a bloody mess yesterday morning so I spent the first hour and a half of my day cleaning it up. What a difference! I felt more clarity and calmness. I was more focused and less stressed, ready to move through the day. As I sorted through the mess, I found forgotten notes and ideas, sparking new thoughts a …
As the gardner in my house, I've learned a few things. Digging in the dirt is theraputic I love to trim trees and bushes but don't like cleaning up Weeds are the freeloaders of the garden world It's amazing how resilient plants are, especially weeds Gardening can be really tiring and tough on the back It feels like I'm contributing to a greener …
Here's a sign that indicates you're in a nice town. Imagine driving along when you notice a digital traffic sign posts the your speed blinks "Too fast...Slow Down." Instead of continuing to post your speed as you slow down, this nice sign flashes a cheerful "Thank You!" as your speed matches the limit. What a pleasant interaction. I'm happy th …
In the tradition of our hunter-gatherer ancestors, I woke up with the songs of birds outside my window, traveled a great distance, and braved the wilds of my kitchen. I hunted by foraging through the dense jungle of my refrigerator and the vast plain of my pantry. Armed with only my hands and arms, I gathered the ingredients, skillfully avoidi …
It's Saturday...and anything goes.
