Old Friends

Old Friends
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There is something special about the friends that know you from back when. Last weekend, we had dinner with friends I have had since just after I started practicing law. (You know who you are!) For perspective, I am coming up on thirty years.

When you have known each other that long, everything that happens has context. You don’t have to explain it. You were both around when so much of it happened. You know each other’s families, their children and more.

Life moves fast these days but sometimes your “old” friends help to slow it all down.

 

 

 

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Corey Bearak

What a coincidental column!
We were with long-time friends (and our daughter) Monday eve; Shelly posted pics on FB. And we see them again Wed. Friendship is to be cherished and ones that stand the test of time are all the more special.
Fred Klein

Facebook has helped rekindle old friendships.
Rona Gura

I knew this was going to be your blog topic!! You said it all except one of the unexpected, interesting things about spending time with old friends is when you learn something new.

PS I stopped counting at 25 years. :)

Submitted by Erik_Scheibe on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 02:05

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Erik Scheibe

"Old friends, you mean much more to me than the new friends"
Harry Chapin, "I Let Time Go Lightly"
David Abeshouse

I just spent some time this morning catching up with an "old friend" from 30+ years ago (we were housemates in law school, and traveled together to Australia and New Zealand for 4+ weeks after taking our respective bar exams). This morning, we made plans to visit their vacation home in Virginia for a long weekend this summer. I haven't seen him in over a year, and our wives, who met through us and also are good friends, haven't gotten together in 3 or 4 years. Really looking forward to it.

Submitted by Lucas_Meyer on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 00:56

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Lucas Meyer

A few months ago, a wonderful friend from high school phoned to tell me that his father had died at age 86 (he quit smoking thirty years ago, but lung cancer got him anyway--diagnosis to expiry: two weeks). His parents still live in Westchester (my friend and his family live in Pittsburgh), and asked me to attend, which of course I did.

Several other friends from that group whom I hadn't seen in thirty years were there, and Jim said that having all of us around him made it so much easier for him to get through his father's death. There was a very nice and authentic Italian lunch at a good place in Pleasantville, all of us Sleepy Hollow High School alumni sat together for a meal that lasted nearly four hours.

Thanks, Nancy, for reminding me of WRM (What Really Matters).

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