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Small Traditions

Small Traditions
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Sometimes, as I’m sure we all do, I wonder/worry about whether my children will accept the traditions my husband and I have tried to impart to them and continue them in their own household. When it comes to religious traditions, my children-- as my brother, sister, and I did-- loudly raise their objections. I hear annually, “Do we have to go both days to temple for Rosh Hashanah?” and, “Do we really have to wait for sundown to eat on Yom Kippur, and, my personal favorite, “Seriously, no bagels for the whole eight days of Passover, how about wraps?”

Last week, my husband and I finished our food shopping for Passover. There was a tremendous amount of groceries as we host both Seders, for his extended family and mine. As my twenty-three daughter, Calli, was helping us unpack the grocery bags, it became apparent that she was searching for something specific. When I questioned her about her search, her response was, “I’m looking for the lollicones [small chocolate lollipops]. We never have Passover without them. And I don't see the eggs for the hard boiled eggs.”

When I showed her the five boxes of lollicones that were in the bag I was unpacking and the four dozen eggs that were in another bag she smiled. So did I, on both the outside and the inside.

What are your traditions? Happy Passover and Easter Gotham!!!

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Corey Bearak

First and foremost family. Chocolate Matzah is something I like as one of the desserts.
Nancy Schess

Made me smile too :). As we were setting the Passover table at our house complete with silly Passover song sheets and plastic green frogs to throw at my son during the seder, my daughter told me that Passover is her favorite holiday. Good moments. Happy Passover!

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Mon, 04/14/2014 - 03:47

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I'm stealing Nancy's frogs, or I would if we did anything at our seders besides eat.

One of my daughters is sure that we have all kinds of traditions. If we've done it once, it's now a tradition and she reminds me to repeat them at the appropriate time. I think kids really like having those kinds of "insider" moments and that they will carry them on.

Submitted by Jeanne_Anne_Norton on Mon, 04/14/2014 - 03:52

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Jeanne Anne Norton

Family traditions are so important, whether playing Monopoly or praying together, because they do get passed on.

Submitted by Lucas_Meyer on Mon, 04/14/2014 - 04:48

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Lucas Meyer

We are a very intermarried family, and unless my math is off, we're now majority Protestant. So we celebrate both sets of holidays. Our last name comes from a Lutheran ancestor, Berchtold Meyer from Heidelberg, whose occupation was hog butcher. We will have brisket, but it comes from a store in Texas called Salt Lick. And the barbecue sauce is out of this world; keeps the Texas (Baptist) contingent happy.

The scion of the Texas relatives is named John Walker Huddleston, III. On the day of his bris, I told the mohel that this was a first in the faith of our forefathers. And he said, that that was ridiculous-- "we've been doing this since Abraham." "Yes, I know. But surely there's never been a bris performed on a John Walker Huddleston III." He agreed.

Happy Passover to all.

Submitted by Erik_Scheibe on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 02:09

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Erik Scheibe

Funny that someone just yesterday asked about my kids and the Easter Bunny. Although we went through all of the motions as kids, I have never really taken to that part of the Easter holiday the way we do around Christmas. Easter has always been more about the religious aspects and time with family. I know that's supposed to be obvious, but I think my wife, son and I wouldn't even notice if we didn't have the traditional egg hunt. Seems a tedious part of the day to be quite honest. Spending time with family is what I have always looked forward to dearly.

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 03:30

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My passover celebrations at my sisters house is always fun and we laugh the whole time through. Although it is supposed to be serious when we read the Haggadah we seem to always joke. If my Nana was here she would be very mad at us. Always great times with my sister and her family. No matter what we celelbrate... Mindy Stein

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 03:32

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we also try not to have to recite the long paragraphs from the Hagadah. This is a tradition Mindy Stein

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Fri, 05/02/2014 - 18:48

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As the granny of this family it is one of my greatest joys to see my children continue this ...May they get this pleasure from their children....xoxoxo

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