Submitted by Fred on

Let The Sun Shine In!

Let The Sun Shine In!
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I know a person who constantly introduces or accentuates the negative
in conversation and despite my protests keeps it up on an ongoing basis.  

This person will remain nameless, but could be called "Negative Nellie". 

Do you know or have such a person in your life?  If so, how do you deal with the stream of negativity?

My approach is to attempt to shut it down as soon as it is incoming. I even rudely interrupt. Anything to stop the stream.  

At this point in life I only want to hear and know the good and positive and, thankfully, there is a lot if you make room for it.  Accentuate the positive and let the sun shine in!

Just call me Half Full Freddie :)

Comments

Vincent Russo

The old adage - is the glass half full or half empty?

I am of the same cloth except the rudely interrupt part - but perhaps i am rude at times. 

Life is Short and Life is Precious!

Here Comes the Sun!!!

 

Dave Freedman, SHRM-SCP

If I have a choice, I choose not to be around that person. 

 

If I don't have a choice, I try to let it flow and respond as little as possible (I've never done any martial arts, but I like to think of it as a "be like a willow in the wind" concept where you let the opponent's own momentum work against them). The other person may or may not understand why I'm doing that, they may even think I'm not listening or I'm rude, but they do know that the conversation isn't going anywhere so hopefully they change course or walk away. :)  

Corey Bearak

We’ve discussed & generally that those kinds of entities get excised or purged to the extent practicable from all phases of my life. I argue for positive reinforcement & intervention only where threat of injury — especially to others — appears likely 

Vincent Chirico

My family tells me things have to even out, and that you have to take the good with the bad.  I always respond, "Where is that written?  Why can't I just take the good and not the bad?"

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