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06.17.2020 (26 Days Ago)

Redhead Princess Warrior writes from The City of Brotherly Love

Captain of the Ship
Captain of the Ship
26 days ago 17 comments Categories: Lifestyle Tags:
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Creating stabilization in an unstable situation, can be helpful to ourselves, our friends and family. Especially now. Placing ourselves back at the helm of life, can be difficult, but it is very important to try and reframe our thoughts. Our social situation reminds me of being tossed at sea, in the middle of a storm; wondering when, or if its going to be over.

My gal pals and I were discussing the top traits that independent people share. After listing 15 people that were top of mind, we attached the most prodominant traits that each person owned, that screamed, "Follow me, I GOT THIS".

1) Make decisions. Unapologetically, with certainty.

2) Get 'er done! Always get it done.

3) Complain? Never. Express yourself, but for Pete's sake, keep moving.

4) Permission? Ewww. Self motivated. Period.

5) Wait? For what?, For whom? Better be for a good reason.

6) Validation? from no one.

Daily rebalance of schedules is perfectly acceptable in today's circumstances.  Make decisions on principal, not emotion. Appreciate the fight or flight feelings, but make choices your kids would be proud of.

Remind ourselves that we are captains of our own ship.

How are you taking back your ship?

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  •  Fred wrote 26 Days Ago (positive) 
     
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    Fantastic Foto (and blog too)!
     
       
     
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  •  sbloom wrote 26 Days Ago (positive) 
     
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    Bingo. Is who we are.
     
       
     
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  •  MarilynGenoa wrote 26 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    I love this thank you
     
       
     
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  •  Victoria_Drogin wrote 26 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    Yup!
     
       
     
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  •  Daniel_Schwartz wrote 26 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    In some organizations, these traits are not acceptable and unfortunately, that leads to a downward trend in many US Businesses. But keep the light shining in your personal side and you will still succeed no matter what.
     
       
     
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  •  Rona_Gura wrote 25 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    This is the sort of blog I need to print out and keep with me at all times. Thank you!!
     
       
     
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  •  NeilHollander wrote 25 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    Techniques to survive in spite of yourself . Our son just returned from a 7 month deployment in the Far East with the United States Marine Corps . As a First Lieutenant he’s a man for all seasons . The training he went rough to gain his current perspective would bring most to their knees . The civilian world pales in comparison . But he’ll bring to this world all that he has become . It’s all about the reality of the training scenario. Meat and potatoes all the way . Don’t underestimate anybody or anything . Especially yourself. Strength comes from the team . No man left behind . RAH !!

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  •  Corey_Bearak wrote 25 Days Ago (positive) 
     
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    I'm Your Captain -- https://youtu.be/A_t59To7Snk
     
       
     
     
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  •  ShelleySimpson wrote 25 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    Love this! It reminds me of something one of my mentors taught me "the same wind blows on us all, what matters most us how we set the sail."
     
       
     
     
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  •  MitchTobol wrote 15 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    This is great Carly, the RWP!!!
     
       
     
     
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