[Fredslist] Etiquette question

[Laurel Scarr-Konel]

Hi everybody!
 
My daughter was invited to her friend's bat mitzvah but it seems that it is a joint bat mitzvah/bar mitzvah with her friend's brother. There is one invitation for both of them. Rachel knows the brother but is not his friend.  Do I give the brother a gift as well?  If so, should it be equal to her friend's gift?  Should it be a token $18 chai gift?
 
What does one do in this situation???
 
Thanks!
 
Laurel Scarr-Konel
Grant, Herrmann, Schwartz & Klinger LLP
675 Third Avenue - Suite 1200
New York, NY 10017-5704
Tel: (212) 682-1800
Fax: (212) 682-1850
email: lscarrkonel at ghsklaw.com
 
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